Controversial and highly vocal governor of Ekiti state has taken a break from the stress of politics in Nigeria to cool off in the United Arab Emirates.
Monday, January 4, 2016
Meet the Couple Who Have Slept With 30 Different People in Four Years and Are Still in Love
A couple who say they feel more in love after sleeping with over 30 persons in four years hope to add more men and women in their sexual exploration list.
The happy couple, Tony Williams and Debbie Dowsett
Tony Williams and Debbie Dowsett, the middle-aged couple claim that their numerous affairs and persistent bed-hopping keeps their relationship strong. The husband and wife from Hainault, London have been together for 17 years. The two have been sleeping with other people on a regular basis with each other's knowledge, reveals Dailymail.
Tony, 59, a retired head of security and Debbie, 43, a hairdresser and beautician, are both openly signed up to numerous extramarital affair dating sites and, despite sharing a home and a bed, they both frequently sleep with other people. And now the pair have laid bare the true extent of their unconventional arrangement, revealing that they have slept with 30 people between them in the past four years alone.
Tony loves Debbie the more even though she sleeps with many men with his knowledge
According to the couple, Debbie currently has four other 'boyfriends' while Tony has two mistresses, and the pair regularly enjoy one night stands.
Tony told the Mirror: 'We’re like any other normal, committed couple - the only difference is that we don’t think it’s natural to be monogamous.
'Our relationship is more passionate than ever. We make love five times a week and we’re always kissing and cuddling. How many other couples can say that?'
He added: 'The reason it works so well is because we have affairs. People have made nasty comments to us and I’ve been told we’re disgusting but humans aren’t built to be faithful.
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'The people who criticise us are usually unhappy in their own relationships. In the time I’ve been with Debbie, I’ve seen so many of my friends go through multiple break-ups.
'I can’t help but think an open relationship could have been the answer to their problems.'
Debbie joined the website Illicit Encounters and Tony signed up to a separate site in 2011, after they decided to give an open relationship a go to spice up their own. The couple were completely open with each other from the start, taking each other’s profile pictures and recommending what to say in their information section. Since then, they have surfed each site together on a daily basis, commenting on the different men or women available.
Tony previously told FEMAIL: ‘We go through each other's websites on the laptop together about once a day because we don't hide anything.
‘Occasionally Debbie says no to a man and I’ll ask why not, just because I'm curious about what's alright with A but not B. But we don't vet. Debbie is free to choose what she likes and I'm free to choose what I like.’
From that moment on though, the way that they communicate on their individual websites is personal. In four years, they have both had several successes with the opposite sex. Tony has had romances that lasted several months, others have been one night stands and a few have amounted to nothing at all.
He said: ‘It all boils down to chemistry when you meet. Things have gone further with five or six people for me over the years. It's fairly regular, maybe once a month that you go and meet someone, or every two weeks maybe.’
Debbie has had a similar success rate with the men she has met, although she has continued to have a relationship with around six of them for roughly the last two years. She said: ‘There’s about five or six that I see on a permanent basis and one that I see every ten d‘The others I see when they can get off work, so about every couple of weeks and one of them about every four weeks.
‘They've all be around for about two years.’
The couple have certain ground rules in place, like contacting the other if they are going to go home with a person for the first time, but they don’t tend to discuss the more intimate areas of each meet-up.
The couple wish to add more men and women to the list of 30 they've slept with
Tony said: ‘I don't need to know what's going on - Debbie doesn't ask me the intimate details and I don't ask her the intimate details.
‘But if she's going to meet someone or I am, the other one always knows who or where and if a first date turns into an “I'm going home with them,” we always text the other person to let them know - it's a safety factor.’
It isn’t just a safety factor though, the strict rules about openness are also in place so that the trust between them never breaks down. Tony said: ‘There's one absolute golden rule - no cheating.
‘I had a wife that cheated on me and in my opinion, what breaks up the relationship isn't that you cheated but that you lied to me. I can't trust you then.
‘But at the end of the day, sex is sex. If you're not lying to me and hiding things behind my back then you're not breaking down the essential part of being a couple, which is the trust between you.’
Tony and Debbie are so unfazed about the fact that each other are having intimate relationships with other members of the opposite sex, that they aren’t even bothered if one brings a date home to use their marital bed if the other is away from home.
Tony said: ‘If Debbie's not at home then the woman I’m with can come back to the house, or most of the time that Debbie is there, we go back to the woman’s house, or we book into a hotel.
‘We're both happy with that. The same applies to Debbie as well, if she knows I'm not at home.
‘Occasionally things develop into threesomes, so if that's where you seem to be heading with your internet talk, then obviously the fact that the other one is at home doesn't make any difference.
‘That has happened to both of us when we’ve been on dates.
‘There's a lot more people into threesomes, foursomes or wife-swapping than you might think. We’re open to threesomes or foursomes.'
But although Debbie and Tony clearly sleep with the women and men that they are dating, it is in no way just about sex. They share common interests and hobbies with the people they meet up with and their dates often revolve around these and they have been ever happy since. So weird!
Photos of Tottenham Star, Emmanuel Adebayor as he Shows Off His Lavished N132m Watch Collection
£100,000-a-week Premier League star, Emmanuel Adebayor shows off his lavish £450,000 collection of personalized watches...but why are they all telling different times?
Emmanuel Adebayor sitting on his customised black and gold Rolls-Royce
Togolese striker, Emmanuel Adebayor, who played and left EPL clubside, Tottenham Hotspurs last year September, may not seem to be in a hurry to find a new club, as he is still picking up £100,000-a-week in wages.
The controversial footballer who is now clubless and live quite a lavish lifestyle, has found the time to accumulate a quite stunning collection of luxury watches.
Adebayor's collection of 12 personalised watches was posted on Instagram by Frost of London.
He is wasting no time spending his earnings as he showed off his luxury collection of time pieces worth £450,000, (N131, 795, 523.64) suped-up by New Bond Street jewellers, Frost of London.
The watches in a storage box, show different times because many are automatic movement pieces meaning they require the owner to wear them to wind them up.
Adebayor (left) shows off one of his watches with Joseph Banin from top jewellers Frost of London
His diamond-encrusted collection has a combined value of more than £450,000 with watches by Hubolt, Jacob & Co, Audemars Piguet, deLaCour, Cvstos and Snyper.
The most expensive time piece owned by the former Manchester City striker, who has a 5-year-old daughter, Kendra, is the Hublot Big Bang King Power Chrono Tourbillon, with a retail price of up to £100,000.
These two Hubolt watches are among Adebayor's most expensive pieces valued at about £25,000 (left) and £100,000 (right)
Posting alongside the picture of 12 high-end watches the striker wrote: 'SEA, haters are gonna hate. Imma do me no matter what. The SEA collection by @josephfrostoflondon.'
The jeweller in London's west end has also designed watches for the likes of Jose Mourinho, Mesut Ozil and Justin Beiber.
Adebayor pictured wearing a £100,000 customised Delacour Bichrono S2 on his left wrist
7 Traits That Make Pretty Women Unmarriageable.
Some girls have it all - money, good looks, well endowed etc. But, many have found it very hard to settle down with a man. Here are the reasons why and what you must avoid.
Have you heard women complain about the ‘fact’ that there are no serious men to marry these days? According to these women, who are often in the mid-twenties, men just want to date-not to settle down. Mark Maina opens up on why most women have found it difficult to settle down with a man.
He said what these ladies fail to understand is that guys are very particular when it comes to choosing someone for a serious relationship that could possibly lead to marriage.
A woman can be beautiful, funny, intelligent and ambitious, but all these good virtues can be nullified by one or two negative traits. The following is a list of the 7 least desirable traits in a lady:
1) The ‘Socialite mentality’
The ‘socialite mentality’ is a disease that seems to have afflicted most 20-something year old ladies. Signs of this malady are manifested by sudden realization that one is the ‘hottest’ in the continent hence the need to divert the world’s attention from the lost Malaysian plane to them.
The infected wear skimpy clothes, and capture their ‘amazing’ outfits on a cheap android phone and proceed to post these pictures on Instagram.
If you want to capture the attention and earn the respect of the 7 billion people on earth go the Lupita Nyon’go’s way. Explore your talents, develop your ideas and work relentlessly until you break a record. Then only the men leading equally successful lives will have the guts to ask you out.
2) Anti-family
Any responsible man holds his family with highest regard. He will go out of his way to create time for his parents and take very good care of them at all cost. Before considering a lady for a serious relationship, a man will first try to ascertain her view towards family.
If she disrespects her parents, lives oblivious of her siblings welfare and dislikes kids then she is considered anti-family. In the guy’s mind the lady will make a poor wife, starve his aging parents and probably chase away his siblings whenever they visit.
There is also a crop of ladies who are so close to their fathers/mothers yet raise ruckus whenever the guy wants to spend some quality time with his family, especially his mother. Trying to compete with a guy’s mother for his attention, especially before he slips the ring into your finger, is a lost cause.
3) Ultra-religious behaviour
It’s every man’s wish to get a wife with strong religious beliefs so that his kids can grow up with some sense of morality. However, there is a clear line between being a staunch believer and a fanatic.
It raises red flags when the lady quotes her pastor more than the good book and uses his/her words to justify her actions. It’s quite annoying for a girl to go for prayer meetings every weekday, ‘Keshas’ on Saturday’s and hardly spare anytime to hang out with you, her boyfriend.
The guy ends up feeling like a total stranger and worst of all if she insists on going to church without a bra and panties because the bishop said that’s what is inhibiting her blessings. Strike a balance between your love and spiritual life. Also, refrain from demonizing anyone who doesn’t subscribe to your beliefs but instead practice tolerance.
4) Lack of ambition
If you wish to have a guy consider you for a serious relationship, then you should at least get focused with your life. Get your priorities straight, have ambitions, work towards achieving your goals and take your studies or job seriously. If all your ‘future plans’ happen to be on where the next coolest party is then don’t expect any guy to take you seriously. All men subconsciously consider ladies who bear qualities close to their mothers as eligible candidates for serious relationships.
Practice moderation, striving to be responsible and industrious. Every man wants the assurance that the lady he is getting hitched to is hardworking so that incase he passes on, his children will never sleep hungry.
5) Extreme materialism
Since the days of the cave men, women only mate with those who can provide and protect their families. However, it’s totally wrong to stick with a guy just because he can afford to sustain your expensive lifestyle only to disappear when their cash flow recedes.
It’s easy to spot a gold-digger. All she wants to do is hang out in fancy places, shop in high-end boutiques and attend exclusive parties. When you are together, you never get to have any meaningful conversations or share intimate details about your lives.
Once a guy realizes you are just there for his possessions, he re-strategizes. You become his trophy girlfriend. He may buy you a nice car and a house but will have them both under his name. In the event you go separate ways, he will send goons to repossess the car and throw you out of the cool crib.
6) False sense of importance
Such a lady has a bloated ego and false sense of importance. She acts like she is doing the guy a favor by being with him. He is, therefore, expected to be so grateful that he worships her and the ground she walks on.
It’s rather draining to date a lady who is convinced you were sorely created to serve her. She will expect you to drop all your plans and run to her side whenever she wants. Since she believes that she can get any man on the planet, whenever you fight she is inclined to issue ultimatums.
This kind of lady snobs the people she considers to have poor tastes ranging from fashion, music all the way to cuisines. For such a lady, a long term relationship is out of question. A guy who wants to settle down would rather go for someone who is humble. She should be able to associate well with everyone from the house help to the obnoxious friend.
7) Selfishness
Sometime back, a girl I really liked invited me over to her place at around 7pm. I immediately rushed there and found her preparing dinner. I’m not passionate about cooking, but you know how women can inspire a guy to do things they wouldn’t on a normal day. So I helped with the preparations and the meal was ready within an hour.
I found it odd that she only served one plate then I thought maybe she wanted us to share. To my surprise, she went curled up on the couch opposite me and ate everything on her plate.
She even had a second serving (clearing the pot in the process) before asking “Dear, did you take supper before coming over?” The funniest thing is that all the time I spent there with her she kept hinting how we would make a great couple and probably marry after college. Just be honest, would you seriously consider getting hitched to a lady who has the audacity to take two plates full of food without offering you a single bite?
How a Nigerian Artiste Allegedly Settled the Beef Between Don Jazzy and Olamide
It seems the Headies Awards drama involving ace music producer, Don Jazzy and indigenous rapper, Olamide seems to be far from ending as a comical narrative of how the truce ended has emerged.
Vic O
Self acclaimed King of Rap, Vic O has revealed that he is responsible for Don jazzy and Olamide's reconciliation. It should be recalled that at the climax of the showdown, Vic O promised to release a song featuring the warring artistes titled: 'Let there be peace and unity'
Don Jazzy and Olamide both ended their beef after they both released joint statements and pictures via the social media yesterday evening which has been applauded by their celebrity friends and fans across the world.
Vic O took to Twitter to divulge classified information about the reconciliation. He said they settled after they listened to his Peace & Unity song. For this reason, he has decided to keep the song unreleased. This seems unbelievable considering Vic O's antecedence.
Efforts to contact Don Jazzy and Olamide to confirm Vic O's claim is already in progress.
Wow! See What Facebook CEO Told A Woman Who Advised Her Granddaughters To Date 'Nerds' In School
A woman referred to Facebook founder, Mark Zuckerberg while asking her granddaughters to date nerds in school. What Zuckerberg told the woman in reply will leave you stunned.
Mark Zuckerberg
A Facebook user Darlene Loretto commented on one of Zuckerberg's post saying that she had told her granddaughters to date the nerd in school because he might turn out to be an inventor and another Mark Zuckerberg.
She said: I keep tellling my grand daughters to date the nerd in school, he may turn out to be a Mark Zuckerberg! Thanks for FB, I've reconnected with my family and many old friends and classmates.
The Facebook founder replied the woman and his response has since gone viral as a super-cool statement to make.
He said: Even better would be to encourage them to *be* the nerd in their school so they can be the next successful inventor.
Mark Zuckerberg's reponse is an all-time classic.
Meet the First Ever Female Chief Judge of Rivers State (Photos)
Rivers state has finally had its first ever substantive female Chief Judge as Governor Wike swears her in.
Governor Wike swearing in Justice Daisy Wotube Okocha as the Chief Judge
The Governor of Rivers state, Nyesom Wike has sworn in a new substantive Chief Judge of the state, Justice Daisy Wotube Okocha.
Daily Post reports that the governor described his swearing-in of Justice Okocha as a victory for the rule of law and a respect for the rules of succession as outlined by the National Judicial Council, NJC.
Justice Okocha is the First Female Chief Judge of Rivers State. She has been acting as the state’s Chief Judge since June 1, 2015.
Wike, while performing the swearing-in of Justice Okocha as the Chief Judge of Rivers State on Monday at the Government House, Port Harcourt, said that the state government acted in line with the recommendation of the National Judicial Council, NJC, which was confirmed by the Court of Appeal on December 23, 2015.
Justice Okocha is the First Female Chief Judge of Rivers State. She has been acting as the state’s Chief Judge since June 1, 2015.
Wike, while performing the swearing-in of Justice Okocha as the Chief Judge of Rivers State on Monday at the Government House, Port Harcourt, said that the state government acted in line with the recommendation of the National Judicial Council, NJC, which was confirmed by the Court of Appeal on December 23, 2015.
A statement issued by the Special Assistant to the Governor on Electronic Media, Simeon Nwakaudu, quotes him as saying that with the recent development, it is clear that governors cannot wilfully disrespect the recommendation of the NJC as was the case with the Amaechi administration in the state.
Wike noted that allowing the judiciary to be subjected to the discretion of sitting governors would desecrate the independence of the Judiciary and lead to abuses that would negatively affect the dispensation of justice.
According to him, “The system will collapse if we refuse to respect the judicial system of succession as laid out. My administration will never do anything that will threaten the rule of law. We will always upholds the customs and traditions of the Judiciary. We never break down the laid down procedure.
“We will never run contrary to our avowed commitment to respect the independence of the Judiciary at all times”.
The Governor charged the new Chief Judge of Rivers State to always uphold the constitution and carry other members of the bench along in the decision making process.
In her remarks after being sworn in, the new Rivers State Chief Judge, Justice Okocha thanked God for making her elevation possible after two years of uncertainty.
She said: “This is a solemn moment for me. The NJC recommendation of 22nd July, 2013 came to manifestation on Monday, 4th January, 2016. God has glorified himself in my elevation as Chief Judge. Man can try, but only God’s counsel will prevail.”
Justice Okocha commended Governor Wike for giving the Judiciary the required independence to carry out its constitutional responsibilities.
In her remarks after being sworn in, the new Rivers State Chief Judge, Justice Okocha thanked God for making her elevation possible after two years of uncertainty.
She said: “This is a solemn moment for me. The NJC recommendation of 22nd July, 2013 came to manifestation on Monday, 4th January, 2016. God has glorified himself in my elevation as Chief Judge. Man can try, but only God’s counsel will prevail.”
Justice Okocha commended Governor Wike for giving the Judiciary the required independence to carry out its constitutional responsibilities.
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