There
are some certain characteristics in a man that speak volume of some
hidden bad habits in him which much attention must be paid to.
Below are some behaviours in certain men that spell doom of a marital union with them:
1. A man that doesn't love and respect his mother:
There is a thiny line between a mommy’s boy and a man who genuinely
loves his mom. A man should love his mother and respect her even when
he disagrees with her. If a man doesn’t respect his mum, what makes you
think he would respect you? He shouldn’t be a mommy’s boy with no
backbone but he should respectfully disagree with her if the need
arises.
2. A man that beats his sisters:
Forget that he is the older one or that his parents approve of it.
There is a natural imbalance of strength between a man and a woman. A
man that feels it is okay to beat his sisters won’t think twice before
hitting you. His sisters are his blood relations and yet he hits them,
how much more you? If he cannot protect his sisters, what is the
assurance that he will protect you?
3. A Man that is money conscious:
This type has only one thing on his mind, ‘make money’ by whatever
means whether good or bad. In the long run, he would probably do
something that will embarrass your family. He also believes his money
should earn him your respect irrespective of his character.
4. A man that can't cook:
Just ask yourself some simple questions. What will happen to your kids
or even to you if you are sick and bedridden? What will happen to your
kids if you happen to travel? What will happen to your kids if by
nature of your job, you close later than your husband? Finally, what
will happen to them if peradventure you die untimely? Will they starve?
Or will your husband replace you immediately even if the new mother is
not a good person?
5. A man that will not cook:
This is quite common in our society. He can cook but he chooses not to
because they find it quite demeaning. Truth is, this says a lot about
how he sees you. If he believes only you should do the degrading chores
around the home, it is because he believes you are a lesser human than
him. Even if you are dying, this one will rather buy food than cook, so Run!
6. A man that believes you owe him:
This type thinks he is doing you a favour by marrying you so he
obviously won’t respect you and expects you to take anything he dishes
out to you.
7. A man that flaunts kids on social media:
There is a new trend lately of men with children all over social media.
They are usually all lovey-doves with them but don’t be deceive. Half of these men probably don’t
know how to change diapers so once again the pressure is on you to
always make the children look good or you will hear it.
8. A man that believes its normal to cheat:
It is not and will never be normal to cheat. It is a lie from the pit
of hell that so many believe and so many more perpetuate. If you agree
with this, then you agree that every man has a place in hell already
which we know is not true. What is wrong is wrong and everybody doing
it will not make it right. If you marry someone with this mentality,
you know what to expect.
9. A man who can't answer to you:
Woh! this one will show you pepper in marriage. A fi mu e fon fere. You
cannot question his actions or inactions o. He will not be accountable
to you on how he spends money, where he goes, what time he comes in,
etc. He will make and take decisions that affect the family without
consulting you and without giving any tangible or logical reason. Awon
team ‘I Will Because I Know I Can’ leyi. He will wake up one morning
and tell you to change the school your children attend and you will be
there wondering what went wrong. Stay far away from them.
10. A man who doesn’t take the issue of rape and child molestation seriously:
Just take note of your conversations with him when the issue of sexual
assault arises. If he is the type that always finds a way to blame the
victim, either male or female, you should have a rethink. He is not a
qualified father material. It will be dangerous for him to bath your
kids. Forget that they are his kids too, we hear stories like that all the time.
