Five Things Ladies Observe At First 50 Seconds of Meeting a Guy

These are some quick features a lady observes about a guy she is meeting for the first time.

 

What do girls first notice in a guy as soon as they set eyes on him? The shoes? The car-keys? The body language?

These are the first 5 things a girl notices in a guy the first time she meets him. And it all happens in seconds!

1. Your overall stature:

Your Height, weight and body build. Her eyes captures it all at once

2. Physical hygiene:

Yes ladies see this next. Are your nails clean and neatly trimmed or have large colonies of bacteria have turned that place to their dwelling place? Pearly white teeth or stained teeth? Well trimmed beard or scraggly hair sticking out like barbed wire. Yes bruv, the ladies notice

3. Dress sense:

This is different from personal hygiene. Your dress sense is rated in two ways: Co-ordination and quality. (yes there is a science to it) Co-ordination to see how well you put your outfit together.  More importantly quality.
 

Women are very good at sizing up what you are wearing and deciding what rung of the economic ladder you belong.

4. Your 4th finger:

After they have sized you up, they mentally note if you are married or not by looking at your 4th finger.

5. Your diction:
 

How well spoken are you? that is the 5th they look out for.

See the Mum Who Falls Asleep When She's Happy and Has Spent 14 Years Just Sleeping (Photos)

A young mother with a rare condition that makes sleep as easy as blinking, has spent a large chunk of her life sleeping.

 

Caley Dove

 

The woman, Caley Dove, missed out on many things after developing the rare condition that causes her to fall asleep whenever she gets happy.

 

Caley Dove, used to fall asleep in exams at school, experienced hallucinations and began talking "gibberish" with friends, whenever she felt overly emotional - including if she gets stressed, happy or sad. 

 

Because she falls asleep every now and then due to the rare condition, the 27-year-old woman is said to have spent approximately 14 years of her life sleeping.

 

Part of her condition is something called cataplexy , which weakens the body's muscle-tone when she experiences strong emotions, causing her to nod off.

 

Despite going to her doctor repeatedly, she spent years being misdiagnosed and "ignored" by the system until the age of 26 - when she was finally diagnosed with narcolepsy.

 

Once, the mother-of-one only narrowly escaped being seriously injured because of her condition, when she fell down during an episode.

 

Caley, who lives in East Grinstead, West Sussex, said: "Any strong emotion like anger, sadness or even if you find something really funny can bring it on.

 

"When I was younger I couldn't control it. Once, I felt really angry and my muscles just collapsed and I ended up falling down a flight of stairs."

 

 

Caley's symptoms first started appearing at school, but her teachers didn't believe there was anything wrong with her and brushed her off as "lazy".

 

She said: "It's very odd, because not all people with narcolepsy fall on the floor when they have an episode. I could still write and have a conversation with my friends, but afterwards I wouldn't remember what we'd been talking about, and I'd start talking gibberish which had nothing to do with conversation.

"It's like you're not all there - my parents just thought I was lazy because I'd get home and go straight to sleep."

 

She found the situation extremely hard to deal with because no one understood what she was going through.

 

She said: "When I was younger I was quite depressed because I had no one to talk to. Everyone thought it was all in my head, it's such an invisible thing.

"I had to sleep in my mum's room because I was so scared of the hallucinations as well."

 

Caley also said the condition can leave sufferers feeling like they have constantly just woken up - and in a bad mood.

 

She said: "Your personality changes when you wake up. Most people in the mornings feel a bit irritable. I felt like that several times a day.

"Even though you're falling asleep a lot, you're not actually getting much sleep, you feel tired all the time."

 

Caley being examined

 

When Caley started college, teachers finally noticed that something was not right and told her parents that she needed to get it sorted out.

 

She went to hospital and got medication, but was still not actually diagnosed with the condition and the medication didn't work.

 

She said: "I still had to deal with it, as I was getting no other support and because the medication didn't work I just left it, I thought I would just have to live with it."

 

But when Caley had her daughter Olivia at the age of 24, she demanded to be examined properly and was referred to a hospital in London - but even then she only came back with a misdiagnosis.

 

Luckily when the young mum moved to East Grinstead and applied for a job at Queen Victoria Hospital, she was given a proper assessment and was finally diagnosed.

 

She is now a sleep coordinator at the Sleep Disorder Centre and is able to help others who have similar sleep disorders and, thanks, to finally being on the right medication, she can now make it through the day without needing to take a single nap.

 

But even though she relies on the medication to be able to work, she still has to pay up to £40 a month for it.

Gov. Nyesom Wike Declares 2 Days Public Holiday for River State Rerun Election

Rivers state governor, Nyesom Wike, has declared two days holiday for Saturday's national and state assemblies re-run elections in the state.

Gov. Nyesom Wike

 

In a statewide broadcast on Wednesday, Rivers state governor, Nyesom Wike, has declared two days holiday for Saturday’s national and state assemblies rerun elections in the state.

 

The governor described the election as pivotal to the state, advising the people to elect only who would 'stand for our rights and promote our collective interest.'

 

"I hereby declare Thursday March 17th and Friday March 18th 2016 as work free days in Rivers state to enable workers from the public and private sectors fully participate in the re-run elections and exercise their franchise.

"Consequently, all public and private offices, including banks must remain closed for the duration of the holidays. It is incumbent that we take full advantage of the opportunity to, once again, exercise our democratic rights to vote for the candidates of our choice.

"It is important to reiterate that the will of the people freely expressed through the ballot is the root of the democratic process and Rivers state cannot be an exception."

 

The governor said the electoral body has assured him that the election shall conform to acceptable standard as he call on security agencies to go about their duties in a professional manner. Wike revealed that he had directed beefing up of security in areas known as flashpoints across the state.

"I have received concrete assurances from the INEC that the re-run elections in the state shall be free, fair and credible. I believe that we can all trust on INEC to live up to this solemn promise.

"As the chief security officer of the state and chairman of the state’s security council, I assure every one of us of our security and safety before, during and after the re-run elections. The Nigerian police and other security agencies have put adequate measures to keep the peace and ensure an orderly conduct of the re-run elections throughout the state.

"I have also received assurances from the armed forces that they will not deviate from their constitutional role of safeguarding law and order before, during and after the re-run elections and I am satisfied with this assurance and believe that it would not be broken.

"However, in line with the ongoing security operations to rid the state of cult-induced violence and criminality, I have requested the armed forces to increase security surveillance around some identified flashpoints of cultism and banditry in Abua/Odual, Andoni, Akuku Toru, Ahoada-East, Ahoada-West, Emohua, Ikwerre, Opobo/Nkoro, and Ogba/Egbema/Ndoni local government areas of the state."

See the Seven Sex Myths that Are Ultimately Destroying Your Love Life

Over time, several myths about sex have been spread around and have ruined the love life of some people. Listed are some of these myths.

 

 

I've been writing about sex for more than three decades (yes, that old!).

 

But I find it rather depressing that some of the sex myths that were kicking around when I was studying psychology at university are still widely believed today.

 

Here's seven, stubborn commonly believed 'facts' about sex that have absolutely no basis in reality at all.

 

1. Good sex is spontaneous and happens naturally

 

Nothing makes me more annoyed than when people say to me, 'Sex should be spontaneous and happen naturally. If you have to plan things and make an effort, you're with the wrong person'.

 

This type of thinking isn't just naive and immature, it makes people question perfectly good, happy relationships.

 

When you've been living with someone for ten years, it's highly unlikely you'll suddenly pass them on the stairs, be overcome with spontaneous lust, rip their clothes off and have your wicked way right there and then.

 

Good sex in long-term relationships is very often planned sex with both partners making a huge effort.

 

These couples make time for sex, put it top of the priority list not bottom, are curious about sex and open to finding new things to do together.

 

They compliment each other sexually, know exactly how their partner likes being touched but also that preferences change in a heartbeat, so it's essential to be able to talk and read body language.

 

'Making an effort' is a decidedly unsexy, dreaded phrase.

 

But if you do make an effort, the result is seriously good sex.

 

 

2. Sex should be great every single time

 

Some people are sexual perfectionists, waiting for the perfection conditions to have good sex (both free, both horny, both having great hair and body days, no kids around, one glass of wine in, both relaxed etc) and expecting perfect performances every time (both adoring every single thing you do to each other, both having an orgasm, preferably together).

 

A healthier, more realistic model for sex looks like this.

 

For every ten sex sessions, it's likely four will be OK, four will be good, one will be fantastic and one boring or even disastrous.

 

If you're not having the odd disaster in bed, say sex therapists, you're not challenging yourselves by trying new things.

 

Stop putting the pressure on and stop counting orgasms.

 

Instead, simply aim to connect physically and give pleasure to each other.

 

 

3. Sex is much better when you're young

 

We should ask Dame Helen Mirren for her opinion on this one.

 

Last year (at 69) she described her sex life as 'great, just wonderful' compared to the 'paranoid and empty' sex she had when young.

 

One Relate survey found during our supposed 'peak' sexual years – our 30s for women (based on peaking estrogen levels) – most couples are so busy dealing with kids, mortgages and careers, sex is largely ignored or a source of stress rather than pleasure.

 

Sexual confidence, according to this and other surveys, truly appears to peak between the age of 60 and 69.

 

Another 2015 study found around 54 percent of men and 31 percent of women in their 70s and 80s have sex at least twice a month.

 

Not just for the young then.

 

 

4. People stop watching porn once they're in a relationship

 

I get a lot of emails from people saying they're deeply upset that their partner is still watching porn and masturbating when they could have 'the real thing'.

 

But watching porn in private – often indulging a 'secret' turn on that perhaps we don't want to share with a partner – is something lots of people enjoy as well as sex with their partner.

 

They are two different experiences, both enjoyable.

 

So masturbating solo doesn't mean your partner's not completely satisfied with the 'real' sex you're having together.

 

Lots of people also satisfy a higher sex drive through masturbating rather than hassle their partners for more sex than they want to have.

 

 

5. Men feel like sex all the time

 

Society gives a nod to female desire fluctuating throughout the month, partly to do with hormone changes and menstruation.

 

But both men and women have certain times of the day, week or month when they feel like sex more – or not at all.

 

What he's eaten, how much sleep he's had, his general health, stress levels, how well you're both getting on, low self-confidence, medication, how much he's had to drink: the same factors that affect our libido, affect his as well.

 

 

6.Sex is about power

 

True, sex is about power.

 

But it's about giving up power, relinquishing control and allowing yourself to be vulnerable.

 

We're all sensitive about sex.

 

No one wants to be told they're a bad lover and no one wants to be called 'weird' or told they have 'something wrong with them' if they 'fess up to wanting to try something new or unusual.

 

It takes guts to be completely honest and open about what you really want to do sexually with your partner.

 

Couples who compete in bed – each wanting to have power over the other – have wary, cautious sex, not wanting the other person to have 'something on them'.

 

Letting go and letting your partner see the true you are key ingredients for a sex life that thrives.

 

 

7. There's something wrong with you if you can't orgasm during intercourse

 

US Sex therapist Vanessa Marin says she 'absolutely despises' the way we talk about female orgasm as a society.

 

'Women are made to think our bodies are weird and hard to figure out. But the main reason why female orgasm can seem harder to attain than male orgasm is because we expect women's sexuality to work the same way men's sexuality does.'

 

In short, we expect women to orgasm from penetration when the best (and often only way for a great majority of women) is through clitoral stimulation.

 

This is how we're built but women are made to feel there's something wrong with us for not being able to orgasm during intercourse.

It's the equivalent of giving men a hard time for not being able to climax using a vibrator.

 

What works for men doesn't work for women and it's frustrating why something we've known for more than 2000 years (it's made clear in The Kama Sutra) still isn't widely accepted.

Dakuku Peterside Hits Hard on Tompolo as He Takes Over as NIMASA Boss

Former Niger-Delta militant, Tompolo has forfeited a large chunk of his fortune to the government following a recent action by the new Director General.

Government Ekpemupolo

  

Few days after the appointment of Peterside Dakuku by president Muhammadu Buhari, the Nigerian Maritime Administration and Safety Agency (NIMASA) has taken over more than 20 of its vessels in the custody of Global West Vessel Services, Daily Trust gathered.

Global West Vessel Service, which handles maritime security issues for NIMASA has Government Ekpemupolo, also known as Tompolo, as one of its major shareholders.

The company purchased the ships as part of a Public-Private Partnership (PPP) arrangement it has with NIMASA during the regime of former president, Goodluck Jonathan.

Tompolo was declared wanted by the EFCC over alleged contract scandals he sealed with former government.

NIMASA confirmed taking over the vessels when contacted by DailyTrust but denied revoking the entire contracts with Global West.

NIMASA’s Deputy Director, Public Relations, Hajia Lamin Tumaka said that it was the management of Global West Vessels that withdrew its services because the agency had not been able to meet up with payments.

Meet the Sexy Gran Mom Who Has Dated Over 100 Lover-boys All Half Her Age (Photos)

A granny is living the dream life as she has successfully dated over 100 lover boys who come all over the world to have passionate times with her.

Gaynor Evans finds joy dating men half her age

 

A glamorous granny claims she has picked up more than 100 toy boys on dating apps over the last five years - because it makes her feel sexy and empowered. Fun-loving 56-year-old Gaynor Evans says sleeping with younger men, some half her age, has given her a new lease of life.

 

One toy boy was 30 years her junior, but despite the age gap, the grandmother-of-three says the benefits of dating younger men - aside from the best sex of her life - are obvious.

 

She said: "It’s fairly simple really - they’re young, fit, and fun.

"Younger men have got stamina, drive, enthusiasm and are able to repeat perform."

 

After two failed marriages, Gaynor, from Enfield, says she has a ‘renewed vigour’ courtesy of her baby-faced beaus and makes no apologies for her behaviour.

 

She said: "I don’t want to age gracefully, I’m quite happy to be a disgrace."

 

Describing herself as ‘firing on all cylinders’, Gaynor says younger men are attracted to older women because they know what they want and aren’t trying to tie them down.

 

She said: "Older women are confident in our own skins, there’s no dancing around. We know what we’re going to do and how to do it."

"We’re not pinning them down for dates, we’re not chasing them on the phone or saying ‘what are you doing this weekend, where are you taking me?’"

 

Gaynor meets her toy boys on nights out, through hook-up app Tinder and specialist dating website toyboywarehouse.com - who she is also an agony aunt for - and goes on a couple of dates a week, though it can be more.

 

"I always have a few on the go. I’m not saying you sleep with one, one night, another the next but over the course of a month you might see a couple of different people," she said.

 

The cougar prefers to go out with men between the age of 25-35 because they have more passion - and not just in the bedroom.

 

Evans is still looking sweet and gorgeous at 56

 

She said: "Younger men always look forward, they are telling you things they are going to do, where they are going.

"They are talking about today and tomorrow whereas older guys talk about today in a fairly negative way and go on about what they used to do in the past."

 

Apart from age, the raunchy recruiter doesn’t have a specific type.

 

She has been out with lawyers, bankers and fitness instructors from across the world including Ireland, Australia, Italy, Switzerland and France.

 

She said: "I prefer tall and intelligent but other than that I have dated dark, blonde and a really fit ginge!

"I love muscles but don’t really mind if they are lean - as long as they are keen."

 

Although the physical side is important to Gaynor, it’s not all about sex.

 

She said: "I’m not good with people I can’t relate to. I like a brain. I like the intelligence."

 

Gaynor met her first husband as a teenager and was married by age 18.

 

After having three children together, the marriage started to have its difficulties and Gaynor had no choice but to leave.

 

The grandmother then fell into another relationship almost immediately with a man 18 years her junior who became husband number two.

 

The marriage lasted nearly 20 years and the couple had a son together.

 

But when that too ended in divorce Gaynor decided her love life needed a rethink.

 

She said: "I thought: I’m not going to let this get me down, I’m just going to have to turn this around so I reinvented myself - lost weight, went to the beauticians and started going out with my daughters, who at that point were in their late 20s, early 30s, because my good friends were all settled with their husbands or partners."

 

She dates only young men 

 

Young men would approach her and after initially rebuffing their efforts Gaynor decided to give them a chance.

She said: "In the early days when I was newly single, I was a bit wild.

"I’d never had a one-night stand in my youth – I didn’t know what they were – though obviously I do now.”

 

In spite of her carefree approach Gaynor admits getting too involved with some of her toy boys.

 

"These boys don’t intentionally hurt you and you have to keep your feet on the ground - even if you’ve got your legs in the air - but you have to be real about it.

"You’re not going to keep hold of them in the real world - Madonna and Cheryl Cole might but not me."

 

Family still ‘come first’ for the matriarch. She’s a proud grandmother and her youngest son, age 24, still lives at home.

She said: "When his friends are round I go into mother mode.

 

"I smother them and I don’t even visualize them in any other way than I am the mum."

 

Close to her two daughters, Gaynor enjoys going on nights out with them but admits eldest daughter Laura, 37, didn’t always approve of her mum’s behaviour.

 

Laura said: "I just wanted my mum to be normal. I thought: why couldn’t she just find a man that’s a similar age and maybe wants to settle down."

 

But she now accepts her mum’s wild ways – although she still doesn’t want to see Gaynor in pulling mode: "If I’m out with my mum she might have an encounter or a kiss but I don’t like that in front of my face."

 

Gaynor, who has written a blog, Sex & the Signposts, about her exploits, admits her toy boy liaisons are unlikely to have a long-term future.

 

But she isn’t ready to give up her younger men just yet.

 

She said: "It’s not worth worrying about what other people think about you.

"You’ve got to do what makes you happy and young toy boys make me very happy."

See How a Girl's Face Was Left Battered After Plane Airbag Exploded in Her Face During Flight (Photos)

A little girl's face was badly burned when the airbag attached to her plane seat exploded in her face during air flight.

 

Daisy James

 

The four-year-old girl, Daisy James, suffered devastating injuries after the plane airbag exploded in her face on a flight to London.

 

Little Daisy went to fasten her seat-belt on the plane to Heathrow Airport after getting on board at an airport near Washington DC, America.

 

But moments later, an airbag secured within the belt mistakenly deployed, leaving her with shocking burns to her face, chest and thigh.

 

The youngster, who was traveling with her grandmother, was also left unable to speak after her face swelled up to 'three times its normal size'.

 

Now, Daisy, from Cheltenham, Gloucestershire, has received an undisclosed five-figure settlement from Virgin Airlines following the terrifying incident.

 

Today, the little girl's mother, Gillian James, 37, told how her daughter flew home after suffering the injuries on the flight from Dulles Airport.

 

When she arrived back in the UK hours later, Daisy was taken for treatment, but she continued to struggle to eat and drink and suffered terrible nightmares.

 

 

Angered by what had happened, the James family sought legal help - and nearly four years on, they have been given the five-figure settlement.

 

Virgin Airlines, who apologized to the family, admitted liability for proven loss within the ambit of Article 17.1 of the Montreal Convention 1999.

 

This makes the carrier liable if a passenger is injured in an accident which happens on board the aircraft or in the course of embarking or disembarking.

 

Mrs James, 37, said: "I couldn't believe it when I saw Daisy come in to the arrivals area at Heathrow. I'm still so angry at what happened."

 

Mrs James told how Daisy had boarded the Virgin Atlantic Airways flight in May 2012 after visiting family in Washington DC during the school holidays.

 

At the time, she had been accompanied by her grandmother Sally Dyer, 67,

 

"So that my husband, Nik, 42, and I, could go to work, Daisy's gran offered to take her to America," said Mrs James, from Leckhampton.

 

"While they were away they visited zoos, went to the beach and did girly things.

"They rang while they were away to talk about what they'd been up to, and her gran helped put together a journal for her to remember the trip, with leaflets from the places they'd visited and photos."

 

Daisy and her mum before the accident

 

But the holiday of a lifetime ended up being ruined after the now eight-year-old was injured on the way home, sustaining burns and cuts to her face, left arm, chest and thigh.

 

Days after the accident, Mrs James was advised to seek legal help. Her family began working with Irwin Mitchell Solicitors, who investigated what had happened on the plane.

 

Mrs James said: "We got legal help because we thought it was important to find out what had happened and we didn't want this to happen to any other families.

"I hope airlines and the manufacturer can prevent this from happening again."

 

Nicola Southwell, an expert aviation lawyer at Irwin Mitchell, who represented the James' family, said: "This incident has had a huge impact on a very young child, not only physically in terms of the injuries Daisy suffered, but also psychologically, as it had an significant impact on Daisy's day-to-day life.

"Daisy's trip to America with her grandmother was supposed to be memorable for all the right reasons, but the family have been left with terrible memories of the holiday.

"While safety measures are, of course, absolutely crucial on flights, it is clear these airbags can cause serious injury if they activate during normal use of the seat-belt.

"We are delighted to have secured a settlement for Daisy and her family that will ensure she continues to get the help she needs to overcome the psychological impact this incident had on her and enable her to begin to put it behind her."

 

A Virgin spokeswoman said: "We have expressed our sincere apologies to the family and while it doesn't lessen the impact of what happened, we have reached a settlement to the family's satisfaction.

"We have investigated the incident thoroughly and can confirm that it was an extremely unusual and isolated incident."