When
in a relationship, there are many things you must expect especially
when it is new. Guys, you all need to be careful as some of what your
woman had told you about her may be all false. Check the list and know
what to do.
Even though no one wants to admit it, we all know that some women
are prolific liars. These type are so skillful in the act that they
almost never get caught at it which invariably makes them good cheaters
(that’s a story for another day). From lying about their age to their
relationship status, they completely leave men behind when it comes to
lying and getting away with it. It is my hope that this list and article
in its entirety will help you understand some of the common lies told
by women, why they tell those lies and how silly they are.
1. Age
This perhaps is the commonest lie told by women and the reason why
they do is not that far-fetched. I have dated girls from different age
groups ranging from the 18-22 year old group and 24-29 year old group. I
got to discover that those that fell within the 24-29 year old group
lied more about their age. They always took off 2 to three years out of
their original age.
Obviously, women lie about their age because they feel men are
mostly attracted to younger women and would perceive older women as
controlling. Despite the facade the media tries to create by trying to
alter the perception of age. It’s a natural biological instinct for
women to know when men are most attracted to them and once they are
above the age when men swoon over them, they naturally try to remain
attractive and lie about their real age which unfortunately, doesn’t
work.
2. Being Single
This is another common lie women tell. A very obvious one is
claiming to have a boyfriend when a guy they don’t like is making a move
on them. However, the opposite of this is more common as women will
pointedly tell a guy they like that they are single when it is actually
the opposite. If they fail to tell you they are single when they like
you, they might just feign ignorance and avoid talking about the man in
their life which happens to be as good as lying about it.
I have been with two girls who were actually in serious
relationships before we got hooked and both never mentioned their
boyfriends while we were together. Perhaps it was because I never asked
because I avoid complications that way. I never got to know they were in
relationships until an awkward message or call comes into their phones.
Of cause, some ladies try to juggle two relationships at a time,
just as other would dump the old guy for the new one. Other ones
basically want to cheat on their boyfriends of many years for the thrill
and excitement the new guy they barely know brings. The scary thing
about this is that the men they end up cheating with are mostly douche
bags and they are barely honest about it with their boyfriends. A recent
study says that 50% of women admitted that they would give their
boyfriend another man’s child while 42% of women said they would lie
about taking birth control so they could get pregnant.
3. We are just friends, he’s not interested
“We are just friends, he’s not interested in me.” is another common
lie women tell. One would be dumb to believe that the women actually
believe this given the “I miss you,” “You look so sexy in that picture,”
etc that the supposed friends constantly bombard them with. The
messages were clear indications that these girls know that these guys
wanted more as some of them even reply with the same. The reason why
women do this can be adduced to their crave for validation, interest in a
future relationship or pure boredom. Women keep some guys around as a
backup plan who they continue to chat, flirt and keep around in case
their ongoing relationship fails to work or someone whose shoulders can
be available to cry on when they have problems in their relationships.
More so, women will keep some other guys whom they previously had
an interest around so that they may ignite a spark. And as a guy, always
bear in mind that women will leave you behind the moment they find
someone that’s more valuable than you are. This sounds somewhat scary
given that a wide array of opportunists can easily get to sleep with her
but the bright side is that you could also find yourself on the other
side.
4. I don’t flirt with other guys
Women often tell this lie given how ambiguous the definition of
flirting is. I see flirting as talking and acting in a way that could
lead a normal man to believe that you are sexually interested in him.
Women are very good at reading body language and can easily deduce if
they are flirting or someone is flirting with them. They also do know
when a guy wants much more from them. Most women flirt just to kill
boredom and have backup plans in case their present relationship fails
to work.
5. I’ve never done this before
If you haven’t heard this a couple of times, then you are probably
lacking in experience. It is common to hear a lady say “I’ve never done
this” when you bring her home from an outing. They believe saying this
will help you believe they are good girls and will never follow a guy
they barely know home but you’d be a fool to believe this as you are one
in a long list who has passed the same routine. Ladies try to appear
innocent so as not to lose an opportunity of being in a relationship
with you. Every one knows “ a hoe can’t be made a housewife” and for
this reason, they try to create a positive perception, hoping you get to
fall for it and a lot of men actually do fall for it.
Another study recently alluded that the higher the number of sexual
partners a a man or woman has had between age 18 and the time of first
marriage or cohabitation, the more likely he or she is to be unfaithful.
6. Last time she had sex
I enjoy asking this question because of the fun of knowing how much
girls lie about it. For reasons unknown, most girls tend to say the
last time they had sex was 6 to 8 months back. Unfortunately, even
though it seems to sound right to them, it is a lie 4 out of 5 times.
The fact that women know guys don’t want to date or marry a slut makes
them pretend to be innocent in the hope that it will give them a
positive perception.
7. Number of Sexual Partners
A lot of girls lie about their body count or how many guys they
have been with. This can be adduced to the fact that they want to be
seen as innocent. They know if they tell the truth, most guys would just
want to smash and leave.
These lies tell us that we have been lied to all through life.
However, one good thing about her telling you all these lies is that she
has a serious interest in you. This however doesn’t make it right for
you to be duped into a relationship. Women tend to use the fact that we
crave good girls and have become good in the act of deception.
Nonetheless, if they want a good guy, they have to work for it not by
getting it through the shortcut.
