Real
men who can truly love a woman do exist but they are hard to find but
these are signs to watch out for in a serial womanizer.
Many of us are still looking for The One – the guy we will spend
the rest of our lives with. Our soul mate who will be there for us all
the time, loving us, comforting us, sharing moments with us and
protecting us.
Finding the one guy that is perfect for you is not easy, and many
of us are scared of making the same dating mistakes over again. Many of
us have dated the creeps, the losers, the lazies, the crazies, the
overly sickly sweets, the FIFA players, the machos, the mommies boys,
and the over achievers who we can’t keep up with. But what about the one
type of man we all fear the most, The Womanizer?
The womanizer is a man who isn’t ready to settle down yet, but
he’ll do anything to convince you that he is. He’ll tell you you’re the
love of your life and that you’ve got great eyes, great legs and great
everything.
But how do you know when you’ve got a womanizer on your hands and
not the genuine article? Let’s take a look at the top 10 warning signs
of a womanizer.
1. He Gets Your Name Wrong
Yesterday you were Rita, today you’re Lisa and tomorrow you’ll be
Priscilla. Sure, he says he’s got fifteen aunties and five different
moms but you should know deep down that he’s actually got too many
single ladies in his life.
2. He’s Super Vain
For a lot of women, having a great sense of humour is the first
trait we look for in a prospective partner. But if a man is a womanizer,
it’s highly likely that his sense of humour cuts dead as soon as you
touch his immaculate hair.
Don’t try to touch his suits either because they cost a bomb.
“Please tell me you did not just put my dry-clean only suit in the wash? I. MIGHT. DIE.”
3. He Never Lives Up To His Word
We’ve all felt a rush of blood to our heads as our man tells us
what he’s going to do for us. He’s going to take us away for a romantic
weekend, introduced us to his family, and basically capture the moon for
us.
It all sounds so exciting and we instantly buy into his dream. His words have swept us off our feet.
After a few weeks and months, though, he still hasn’t made good on
his word. You’ve still not been away for a weekend together (as a matter
of fact, he seems to spend most of his weekends away on his own), and
you haven’t even met his family. Is this guy for real and are his
endless list of excuses just a cover-up? You bet!
4. He Has A Reputation
If women have come up to you or messaged you on Facebook that your
new man has got a reputation, you shouldn’t swiftly dismiss this
accusations as manifestations of jealousy. Instead, you should hear them
out and make up your own mind.
5. He Only Seems To Appear Later At Night
From my experience, this is the biggest tell-tale sign of them all that you’ve got a perennial womanizer on your hands.
Your man should be available day and night, and not just “any time
after ten PM.” It just isn’t good enough that he only makes a cameo
appearance when the sun has set. Sure, he tells you that he’s been
working late or whatnot, but you know deep down that something just
doesn’t seem right here.
A man who isn’t a womanizer will want to see you at all times, and not at the witching hour only.
6. When He Compliments You All The Time
They say that when a guy compliments us too much it usually means
they’re feeling guilty about something, or they’ve got something to
hide.
Sometimes, guys will shower us with compliments whenever they’re feeling good about something – such as a spot of womanizing.
When a man looks into your eyes and tells you how beautiful you are, it’s sincere and genuine.
But when he’s hyper and won’t stop covering you with compliments
about your eyes, your legs, your hair, your bum etcetera, you should be
on your guard.
7. He Moves Really Fast
You haven’t even introduced yourself and he already wants to buy a house with you and have all your babies. Red flag.
8. He Locks His Phone
We all locked our phones when we were kids (still no idea why), but no normal adult does this in 2016.
Except womanizers, of course.
If you notice that his phone is constantly buzzing and he’s always
texting someone, it’s a pretty big warning sign. But if he also locks
his phone so that you can never access it, it’s a full on red-alert that
he’s not the man for you.
9. He Doesn’t Call Back For Ages
You’ve just had a great night with him that you both seemed to
enjoy. You had a laugh, some dinner and a bit of romance. It went so
well.
But then he doesn’t return your call for days afterwards. What gives?
Eventually, of course, he will return and say that he was busy or
something equally empty. He’ll want another giggle, some more dinner and
a bit more romance again.
Take all this as a warning sign. He only wants you when he’s got a
few needs to fulfil. Once they’ve been taken care of, he’s off to look
for other adventures.
10.He Flirts On Social Media
Facebook is often a great place to find out whether or not your man
is a womanizer. If he isn’t a womanizer, his photos and comments will
be totally normal and respectful. There might be pictures of him
enjoying a drink with the lads, and maybe one or two of his mom.
If, however, he can’t get enough of the opposite sex, you can
expect to see lots of photos of him on regular nights out with lots of
different girls. You’ll also notice flirty comments and invitations to
hang out with all kinds of women you’ve never heard of before. No matter
how much he tells you he loves you, it’s clear that he can’t control
his appetite for girls.
