Wednesday, March 16, 2016

Gov. Nyesom Wike Declares 2 Days Public Holiday for River State Rerun Election



Rivers state governor, Nyesom Wike, has declared two days holiday for Saturday's national and state assemblies re-run elections in the state.
Gov. Nyesom Wike
 
In a statewide broadcast on Wednesday, Rivers state governor, Nyesom Wike, has declared two days holiday for Saturday’s national and state assemblies rerun elections in the state.
 
The governor described the election as pivotal to the state, advising the people to elect only who would 'stand for our rights and promote our collective interest.'
 
"I hereby declare Thursday March 17th and Friday March 18th 2016 as work free days in Rivers state to enable workers from the public and private sectors fully participate in the re-run elections and exercise their franchise.

"Consequently, all public and private offices, including banks must remain closed for the duration of the holidays. It is incumbent that we take full advantage of the opportunity to, once again, exercise our democratic rights to vote for the candidates of our choice.

"It is important to reiterate that the will of the people freely expressed through the ballot is the root of the democratic process and Rivers state cannot be an exception."
 
The governor said the electoral body has assured him that the election shall conform to acceptable standard as he call on security agencies to go about their duties in a professional manner. Wike revealed that he had directed beefing up of security in areas known as flashpoints across the state.

"I have received concrete assurances from the INEC that the re-run elections in the state shall be free, fair and credible. I believe that we can all trust on INEC to live up to this solemn promise.

"As the chief security officer of the state and chairman of the state’s security council, I assure every one of us of our security and safety before, during and after the re-run elections. The Nigerian police and other security agencies have put adequate measures to keep the peace and ensure an orderly conduct of the re-run elections throughout the state.

"I have also received assurances from the armed forces that they will not deviate from their constitutional role of safeguarding law and order before, during and after the re-run elections and I am satisfied with this assurance and believe that it would not be broken.

"However, in line with the ongoing security operations to rid the state of cult-induced violence and criminality, I have requested the armed forces to increase security surveillance around some identified flashpoints of cultism and banditry in Abua/Odual, Andoni, Akuku Toru, Ahoada-East, Ahoada-West, Emohua, Ikwerre, Opobo/Nkoro, and Ogba/Egbema/Ndoni local government areas of the state."

See the Seven Sex Myths that Are Ultimately Destroying Your Love Life

Over time, several myths about sex have been spread around and have ruined the love life of some people. Listed are some of these myths.
 
 
I've been writing about sex for more than three decades (yes, that old!).
 
But I find it rather depressing that some of the sex myths that were kicking around when I was studying psychology at university are still widely believed today.
 
Here's seven, stubborn commonly believed 'facts' about sex that have absolutely no basis in reality at all.
 
1. Good sex is spontaneous and happens naturally
 
Nothing makes me more annoyed than when people say to me, 'Sex should be spontaneous and happen naturally. If you have to plan things and make an effort, you're with the wrong person'.
 
This type of thinking isn't just naive and immature, it makes people question perfectly good, happy relationships.
 
When you've been living with someone for ten years, it's highly unlikely you'll suddenly pass them on the stairs, be overcome with spontaneous lust, rip their clothes off and have your wicked way right there and then.
 
Good sex in long-term relationships is very often planned sex with both partners making a huge effort.
 
These couples make time for sex, put it top of the priority list not bottom, are curious about sex and open to finding new things to do together.
 
They compliment each other sexually, know exactly how their partner likes being touched but also that preferences change in a heartbeat, so it's essential to be able to talk and read body language.
 
'Making an effort' is a decidedly unsexy, dreaded phrase.
 
But if you do make an effort, the result is seriously good sex.
 
 
2. Sex should be great every single time
 
Some people are sexual perfectionists, waiting for the perfection conditions to have good sex (both free, both horny, both having great hair and body days, no kids around, one glass of wine in, both relaxed etc) and expecting perfect performances every time (both adoring every single thing you do to each other, both having an orgasm, preferably together).
 
A healthier, more realistic model for sex looks like this.
 
For every ten sex sessions, it's likely four will be OK, four will be good, one will be fantastic and one boring or even disastrous.
 
If you're not having the odd disaster in bed, say sex therapists, you're not challenging yourselves by trying new things.
 
Stop putting the pressure on and stop counting orgasms.
 
Instead, simply aim to connect physically and give pleasure to each other.
 
 
3. Sex is much better when you're young
 
We should ask Dame Helen Mirren for her opinion on this one.
 
Last year (at 69) she described her sex life as 'great, just wonderful' compared to the 'paranoid and empty' sex she had when young.
 
One Relate survey found during our supposed 'peak' sexual years – our 30s for women (based on peaking estrogen levels) – most couples are so busy dealing with kids, mortgages and careers, sex is largely ignored or a source of stress rather than pleasure.
 
Sexual confidence, according to this and other surveys, truly appears to peak between the age of 60 and 69.
 
Another 2015 study found around 54 percent of men and 31 percent of women in their 70s and 80s have sex at least twice a month.
 
Not just for the young then.
 
 
4. People stop watching porn once they're in a relationship
 
I get a lot of emails from people saying they're deeply upset that their partner is still watching porn and masturbating when they could have 'the real thing'.
 
But watching porn in private – often indulging a 'secret' turn on that perhaps we don't want to share with a partner – is something lots of people enjoy as well as sex with their partner.
 
They are two different experiences, both enjoyable.
 
So masturbating solo doesn't mean your partner's not completely satisfied with the 'real' sex you're having together.
 
Lots of people also satisfy a higher sex drive through masturbating rather than hassle their partners for more sex than they want to have.
 
 
5. Men feel like sex all the time
 
Society gives a nod to female desire fluctuating throughout the month, partly to do with hormone changes and menstruation.
 
But both men and women have certain times of the day, week or month when they feel like sex more – or not at all.
 
What he's eaten, how much sleep he's had, his general health, stress levels, how well you're both getting on, low self-confidence, medication, how much he's had to drink: the same factors that affect our libido, affect his as well.
 
 
6.Sex is about power
 
True, sex is about power.
 
But it's about giving up power, relinquishing control and allowing yourself to be vulnerable.
 
We're all sensitive about sex.
 
No one wants to be told they're a bad lover and no one wants to be called 'weird' or told they have 'something wrong with them' if they 'fess up to wanting to try something new or unusual.
 
It takes guts to be completely honest and open about what you really want to do sexually with your partner.
 
Couples who compete in bed – each wanting to have power over the other – have wary, cautious sex, not wanting the other person to have 'something on them'.
 
Letting go and letting your partner see the true you are key ingredients for a sex life that thrives.
 
 
7. There's something wrong with you if you can't orgasm during intercourse
 
US Sex therapist Vanessa Marin says she 'absolutely despises' the way we talk about female orgasm as a society.
 
'Women are made to think our bodies are weird and hard to figure out. But the main reason why female orgasm can seem harder to attain than male orgasm is because we expect women's sexuality to work the same way men's sexuality does.'
 
In short, we expect women to orgasm from penetration when the best (and often only way for a great majority of women) is through clitoral stimulation.
 
This is how we're built but women are made to feel there's something wrong with us for not being able to orgasm during intercourse.
It's the equivalent of giving men a hard time for not being able to climax using a vibrator.
 
What works for men doesn't work for women and it's frustrating why something we've known for more than 2000 years (it's made clear in The Kama Sutra) still isn't widely accepted.

Dakuku Peterside Hits Hard on Tompolo as He Takes Over as NIMASA Boss

Former Niger-Delta militant, Tompolo has forfeited a large chunk of his fortune to the government following a recent action by the new Director General.
Government Ekpemupolo
  
Few days after the appointment of Peterside Dakuku by president Muhammadu Buhari, the Nigerian Maritime Administration and Safety Agency (NIMASA) has taken over more than 20 of its vessels in the custody of Global West Vessel Services, Daily Trust gathered.

Global West Vessel Service, which handles maritime security issues for NIMASA has Government Ekpemupolo, also known as Tompolo, as one of its major shareholders.

The company purchased the ships as part of a Public-Private Partnership (PPP) arrangement it has with NIMASA during the regime of former president, Goodluck Jonathan.

Tompolo was declared wanted by the EFCC over alleged contract scandals he sealed with former government.

NIMASA confirmed taking over the vessels when contacted by DailyTrust but denied revoking the entire contracts with Global West.

NIMASA’s Deputy Director, Public Relations, Hajia Lamin Tumaka said that it was the management of Global West Vessels that withdrew its services because the agency had not been able to meet up with payments.

Meet the Sexy Gran Mom Who Has Dated Over 100 Lover-boys All Half Her Age (Photos)

A granny is living the dream life as she has successfully dated over 100 lover boys who come all over the world to have passionate times with her.
Gaynor Evans finds joy dating men half her age
 
A glamorous granny claims she has picked up more than 100 toy boys on dating apps over the last five years - because it makes her feel sexy and empowered. Fun-loving 56-year-old Gaynor Evans says sleeping with younger men, some half her age, has given her a new lease of life.
 
One toy boy was 30 years her junior, but despite the age gap, the grandmother-of-three says the benefits of dating younger men - aside from the best sex of her life - are obvious.
 
She said: "It’s fairly simple really - they’re young, fit, and fun.

"Younger men have got stamina, drive, enthusiasm and are able to repeat perform."
 
After two failed marriages, Gaynor, from Enfield, says she has a ‘renewed vigour’ courtesy of her baby-faced beaus and makes no apologies for her behaviour.
 
She said: "I don’t want to age gracefully, I’m quite happy to be a disgrace."
 
Describing herself as ‘firing on all cylinders’, Gaynor says younger men are attracted to older women because they know what they want and aren’t trying to tie them down.
 
She said: "Older women are confident in our own skins, there’s no dancing around. We know what we’re going to do and how to do it."

"We’re not pinning them down for dates, we’re not chasing them on the phone or saying ‘what are you doing this weekend, where are you taking me?’"
 
Gaynor meets her toy boys on nights out, through hook-up app Tinder and specialist dating website toyboywarehouse.com - who she is also an agony aunt for - and goes on a couple of dates a week, though it can be more.
 
"I always have a few on the go. I’m not saying you sleep with one, one night, another the next but over the course of a month you might see a couple of different people," she said.
 
The cougar prefers to go out with men between the age of 25-35 because they have more passion - and not just in the bedroom.
 
Evans is still looking sweet and gorgeous at 56
 
She said: "Younger men always look forward, they are telling you things they are going to do, where they are going.

"They are talking about today and tomorrow whereas older guys talk about today in a fairly negative way and go on about what they used to do in the past."
 
Apart from age, the raunchy recruiter doesn’t have a specific type.
 
She has been out with lawyers, bankers and fitness instructors from across the world including Ireland, Australia, Italy, Switzerland and France.
 
She said: "I prefer tall and intelligent but other than that I have dated dark, blonde and a really fit ginge!

"I love muscles but don’t really mind if they are lean - as long as they are keen."
 
Although the physical side is important to Gaynor, it’s not all about sex.
 
She said: "I’m not good with people I can’t relate to. I like a brain. I like the intelligence."
 
Gaynor met her first husband as a teenager and was married by age 18.
 
After having three children together, the marriage started to have its difficulties and Gaynor had no choice but to leave.
 
The grandmother then fell into another relationship almost immediately with a man 18 years her junior who became husband number two.
 
The marriage lasted nearly 20 years and the couple had a son together.
 
But when that too ended in divorce Gaynor decided her love life needed a rethink.
 
She said: "I thought: I’m not going to let this get me down, I’m just going to have to turn this around so I reinvented myself - lost weight, went to the beauticians and started going out with my daughters, who at that point were in their late 20s, early 30s, because my good friends were all settled with their husbands or partners."
 

She dates only young men 
 
Young men would approach her and after initially rebuffing their efforts Gaynor decided to give them a chance.
She said: "In the early days when I was newly single, I was a bit wild.

"I’d never had a one-night stand in my youth – I didn’t know what they were – though obviously I do now.”
 
In spite of her carefree approach Gaynor admits getting too involved with some of her toy boys.
 
"These boys don’t intentionally hurt you and you have to keep your feet on the ground - even if you’ve got your legs in the air - but you have to be real about it.

"You’re not going to keep hold of them in the real world - Madonna and Cheryl Cole might but not me."
 
Family still ‘come first’ for the matriarch. She’s a proud grandmother and her youngest son, age 24, still lives at home.
She said: "When his friends are round I go into mother mode.
 
"I smother them and I don’t even visualize them in any other way than I am the mum."
 
Close to her two daughters, Gaynor enjoys going on nights out with them but admits eldest daughter Laura, 37, didn’t always approve of her mum’s behaviour.
 
Laura said: "I just wanted my mum to be normal. I thought: why couldn’t she just find a man that’s a similar age and maybe wants to settle down."
 
But she now accepts her mum’s wild ways – although she still doesn’t want to see Gaynor in pulling mode: "If I’m out with my mum she might have an encounter or a kiss but I don’t like that in front of my face."
 
Gaynor, who has written a blog, Sex & the Signposts, about her exploits, admits her toy boy liaisons are unlikely to have a long-term future.
 
But she isn’t ready to give up her younger men just yet.
 
She said: "It’s not worth worrying about what other people think about you.

"You’ve got to do what makes you happy and young toy boys make me very happy."

See How a Girl's Face Was Left Battered After Plane Airbag Exploded in Her Face During Flight (Photos)

A little girl's face was badly burned when the airbag attached to her plane seat exploded in her face during air flight.
 
Daisy James
 
The four-year-old girl, Daisy James, suffered devastating injuries after the plane airbag exploded in her face on a flight to London.
 
Little Daisy went to fasten her seat-belt on the plane to Heathrow Airport after getting on board at an airport near Washington DC, America.
 
But moments later, an airbag secured within the belt mistakenly deployed, leaving her with shocking burns to her face, chest and thigh.
 
The youngster, who was traveling with her grandmother, was also left unable to speak after her face swelled up to 'three times its normal size'.
 
Now, Daisy, from Cheltenham, Gloucestershire, has received an undisclosed five-figure settlement from Virgin Airlines following the terrifying incident.
 
Today, the little girl's mother, Gillian James, 37, told how her daughter flew home after suffering the injuries on the flight from Dulles Airport.
 
When she arrived back in the UK hours later, Daisy was taken for treatment, but she continued to struggle to eat and drink and suffered terrible nightmares.
 
 
Angered by what had happened, the James family sought legal help - and nearly four years on, they have been given the five-figure settlement.
 
Virgin Airlines, who apologized to the family, admitted liability for proven loss within the ambit of Article 17.1 of the Montreal Convention 1999.
 
This makes the carrier liable if a passenger is injured in an accident which happens on board the aircraft or in the course of embarking or disembarking.
 
Mrs James, 37, said: "I couldn't believe it when I saw Daisy come in to the arrivals area at Heathrow. I'm still so angry at what happened."
 
Mrs James told how Daisy had boarded the Virgin Atlantic Airways flight in May 2012 after visiting family in Washington DC during the school holidays.
 
At the time, she had been accompanied by her grandmother Sally Dyer, 67,
 
"So that my husband, Nik, 42, and I, could go to work, Daisy's gran offered to take her to America," said Mrs James, from Leckhampton.
 
"While they were away they visited zoos, went to the beach and did girly things.

"They rang while they were away to talk about what they'd been up to, and her gran helped put together a journal for her to remember the trip, with leaflets from the places they'd visited and photos."
 
Daisy and her mum before the accident
 
But the holiday of a lifetime ended up being ruined after the now eight-year-old was injured on the way home, sustaining burns and cuts to her face, left arm, chest and thigh.
 
Days after the accident, Mrs James was advised to seek legal help. Her family began working with Irwin Mitchell Solicitors, who investigated what had happened on the plane.
 
Mrs James said: "We got legal help because we thought it was important to find out what had happened and we didn't want this to happen to any other families.

"I hope airlines and the manufacturer can prevent this from happening again."
 
Nicola Southwell, an expert aviation lawyer at Irwin Mitchell, who represented the James' family, said: "This incident has had a huge impact on a very young child, not only physically in terms of the injuries Daisy suffered, but also psychologically, as it had an significant impact on Daisy's day-to-day life.

"Daisy's trip to America with her grandmother was supposed to be memorable for all the right reasons, but the family have been left with terrible memories of the holiday.

"While safety measures are, of course, absolutely crucial on flights, it is clear these airbags can cause serious injury if they activate during normal use of the seat-belt.

"We are delighted to have secured a settlement for Daisy and her family that will ensure she continues to get the help she needs to overcome the psychological impact this incident had on her and enable her to begin to put it behind her."
 
A Virgin spokeswoman said: "We have expressed our sincere apologies to the family and while it doesn't lessen the impact of what happened, we have reached a settlement to the family's satisfaction.

"We have investigated the incident thoroughly and can confirm that it was an extremely unusual and isolated incident."

Another Olamide Song Has been Banned by NBC for Vulgar Lyrics...

Another song by popular Nigerian rapper, Olamide, has been banned by the National Broadcasting Commission because of the apparent vulgar lyrics inherent in it.
 
Olamide
 
Only months after the NBC banned Olamide's  'Bobo' for vulgar lyrics, the organization has banned another of the singer's song- 'Don’t Stop' for the same offense.
 
The NBC in a memo stated that examples of phrases in the song that necessitated the blacklisting includes: "I just wanna hit it now now now," "Je kin wo be ( let me enter 'the place' )," "don’t stop, take it," "Oun tami oun ro mi," (my private parts are hurting me)
 
"It took your mama 9 months to make it," "wa gba ponron (come and let me give you my penis )." etc
 
Below is one of the notices sent to Star FM by NBC:
 

Inside National Assembly's N115billion Budget for 2016 as House of Reps Gets Biggest Share

The House of Representatives is to receive the highest allocation in National Assembly's N115 billion budget for 2016, details of the proposal exclusively obtained ahead of an official release.
 
The House of Representatives is to receive the highest allocation in National Assembly’s N115 billion budget for 2016, details of the proposal exclusively obtained by Premium Times ahead of an official release.
 
The public release of specific allocations to the various arms of the assembly will be the first time in five years.
 
Despite public criticisms against the assembly’s huge budget, details seen by this newspaper show the N115 billion aggregate may be retained after all.
 
In the budget President Muhammadu Buhari presented to the joint sitting of the Senate and House of Representatives December 22, the sum of N115 billion was allocated to the National Assembly without breaking down the details of the allocations to its arms.
 
The bulk allocation to the National Assembly began in 2011. Since then the legislature has resisted demands for a breakdown of allocations to its arms and has rebuffed calls for transparency in its annual spending.
 
Since taking office in 2015, the Senate President, Bukola Saraki, who is the chairman of the National Assembly, repeatedly assured that henceforth the details of its budget would be made known to Nigerians as part of the efforts to ensure transparency in its operations.
 
The draft budgetary allocations to the National Assembly shows that out of the N115 billion allocated to the legislature, N105.4 billion has been set aside as recurrent expenditure while N9.6 billion is for capital projects.
 
The draft breakdown, expected to be adopted by the Senate and House of Representatives at their plenary sessions Thursday barring any last minute change of mind, also shows that the 360-member House of Representatives will get N47.2 billion.
 
Of that figure, proposed recurrent expenditure is N44. 6 billion while the capital expenditure is N2.7 billion. The personnel cost for the lower chamber is N4.9 billion while the overhead cost is N39.6 billion.
 
The proposed allocation to the Senate is N30. 2 billion. The breakdown shows that the upper house would spend N3.3 billion on capital projects and N26.97 billion on recurrent. Its personnel cost is N1,856,510,517 and overhead cost is N25,111,332,147.
 
The Public Accounts Committee of the Senate was allocated N115,008,000 while its House counterpart got N138,009,000.
 
The management arm has a total allocation of N11,625,392,906 with N10,048,616,823 as recurrent expenditure and N1,576,776,083 as capital votes. Its personnel cost is N6,372,434,997 and overhead cost N3,676,181,826.
 
The sum of N9458,800,803 was allocated for General Services. When broken down, the recurrent profile is N,669,079,143 while the capital expenditure profile stands at N789,721,660.
 
Other arms of the federal legislature that received allocations are National Assembly Service Commission and the National Assembly Legislative Institute.
 
The NASC got N1,971,833,327 with N1,858,033,532 as recurrent expenditure and N113,799,795 for capital projects. Its personnel cost is N810,084,566 while the overhead is N1,047,950,966.
 
On its part, the NALI secured a total of N4,208,813,051 with N3,844,990,172 as capital and N363,822,879 as recurrent. A further breakdown shows that its personnel cost is 363,522,879 while overhead is N3,019,355,811.
 
A total of N9,668,983,512 has been set aside for the legislative aides of the lawmakers while the Service Order Vote is N374,405,631.
 
Past Assurances
 
The expected release of the detailed budgetary allocations to the various arms of the National Assembly will be the first since 2011.
 
Until that year, allocations to the arms had been detailed in the budget presented by the past presidents to the legislature.
 
The budgets prepared by the Goodluck Jonathan administration for the National Assembly between 2011 and 2015 did not provide specifics.
 
Similarly, the then Senate President, David Mark, and Speaker of the House of Representatives, Aminu Tambuwal, never bothered to disclose the details of the budgetary allocations to the National Assembly, which came to N715 billion.
 
The sum of N150 billion each was allocated to the legislature in 2011, 2012, 2013 and 2014 while it got N115 billion in 2015.
 
The secrecy with which the National Assembly engaged in financial transactions attracted public outcry with many demanding that such transactions should be made open.
 
In January, a former president, Olusegun Obasanjo, in a letter he addressed to Mr. Saraki and the Speaker of the House of Representatives, Yakubu Dogara, said the practice in the National Assembly “detracts from “distinguishness” and “honourability” because it is shrouded in opaqueness and absolute lack of transparency and could not be regarded as normal, good and decent practice in a democracy that is supposed to be exemplary.”
Since he assumed office last year, Mr. Saraki had repeatedly assured that the financial transactions of the National Assembly would be open.
 
In an interview with a team of editors of the London based magazine- the Economist last Sunday, the senate president said the budget breakdown of the lawmakers would be published this week.
 
He said the decision to publish the details of the budget was in line with the anti-corruption stance of the 8th National Assembly, adding that the legislature would not cover any form of corruption.
 
“For the first time we promised Nigerians that the Senate will disclose its budget breakdown, the committee will make its report available by next week. We are resolved to break the tradition of one line item,” he said.
Mr. Saraki said that the Senate would partner with President Muhammadu Buhari to ensure the success of the anti-corruption war.‎
 
He had made similar promises in the past. In his inauguration speech on June 9, 2015, the senate president told Nigerians that the era of impunity and arrogance in the country was gone.
 
He said there would be “a change from impunity and elite arrogance to a life of accountability and respect for every citizen, regardless of tribe, gender, religion and political persuasion. We must justify the privilege of representation conferred in us by the people.”
 
“As the President of the 8th Senate and chairman of the National Assembly, I shall be guided by the enormity of the responsibilities that this moment imposes on all of us,” he stressed.
 
In another media interview, Mr. Saraki, He said, “By the time we come in to the 2016 budget at the end of the year, it will be even clearer because people just see one item line.
 
“But that is not going to happen now, you will see what goes to the Senate, what goes to the House of Reps, you are going to see what goes to management, what goes to Legislative Institute, we are going to make all these open and clear. That is part of the openness we promised.”
 
Again, while receiving the leadership of the All Progressive Congress Youth Forum in his office as part of the celebration of this year’s International Youth Day in August, Mr. Saraki said the Senate had nothing to hide.
 
He said, “I want to assure you, despite all what you read in the papers, be rest assured that we are here for serious business. We are all committed to make a difference and my doors are open.
 
“Very soon, from what I am being told from the Senate Committee on Rules and Business, we are trying to move fast about the e-parliament so that everybody here can know what we are doing and they can also contribute to some of the discussions.
 
“We want to make this place as open as possible. There is nothing here we are hiding. What is our great motivation? Nigerians spoke at the last elections and I don’t think they spoke for things to be the same and we must not let it be the same. We must ensure that it is positively different.”